Trying to learn to deep throat, how did you learn?

[oral_robert]

I have aspired to deep throat for more than 20 years, but I have a very strong gag reflex I've never been able to get around. I've read a little about it, but none of the hints I've come across can get me past that gag.

I recently decided to give it another try, and ordered a realistic 8-inch flexible dildo for practice that just arrived today (don't suggest practicing on the real thing, until I can do it I don't want to puke on some guy's crotch).

I have some hope already as have been able to get all the way down to the balls twice for a quick second, although I nearly puked both times.

SO, for those who can do it, how did you learn? Was it tough for you to calm your gag reflex? Any help and advice will be a great public service to as many organs as I can manage to find.