What you are into is all that counts, plus honesty. I mean I've been getting blown before and then it suddenly feels different and you move back so that you can see and then you see that you are fucking a guy in the ass. I'm not opposed to that as long as they are upfront and want to use a rubber. I'd rather not carry an STD home. I'll admit when you're balls deep and the guy is riding your cock you're not going to pull out. I know I didn't.

Also I like to take turns, but if a guy wants to just suck that's fine too.