It's a shame that Craigslist has closed down personals because that was the best source for a pvt gh. Check out DoubleList.com. It hosts geographic personals. Not nearly as good as Craigs . . . but . . . better than nothing. As for female/vs/male gh cocksucker. I know some guys have hangups. I host a very discreet g-hole or g-chair in my home and offer an annonymous encounter for str8 men in the area. It works very well.
It's a shame that geographically there's so much distance between us - because you sound like the perfect GH feeder. Yes - a gh bj IS all about you and your pleasure. Don't forget that.
Looking for a g h somewhere near Saint Petersburg I was lucky enough to use one and I can't wait to use one again would anyone happen to know where I might be able to go in the area